I once made a list before of 100 things, but since I have changed I feel I need to update it..
I intend to do them all!
- Stop blushing when I say the “c” word for a mans anatomy.
- Learn to dance a waltz if it kills me.
- Hold and admire a snake..even though I am slightly scared.
- Have a child and name her Anna May Rose, because my spirit guide told me to.
- Watch Isabelle graduate from high school.
- Hold hands with someone sexy.
- Toop in Scotland
- Snog in England
- Shag in England as well (snogging leads to shagging anyhow)
- Watch Isabelle graduate from college
- Fall in love with my soul-mate.
- Travel and take photos…blog the whole damn thing.
- Get a real dramatic proposal from that same soul-mate.
- Get flowers with a steamy note
- Mail and receive love letters in the mail.
- Throw a surprise party.
- Watch all of the Indiana Jones movies in the same night.
- Own all the Monk episodes..ditto Psych.
- Own all the Fraggle Rock episodes and the Muppet Shows.
- Get my poetry published.
- Write a photographic scrapbook.
- scrapbook Isabelle’s childhood.
- Get Married to that awesome soul-mate.
- Find the one thing my soul-mate wants with all his heart and give it to him.
- Dance sexy for SM.
- Lie in bed and read a book next to SM who is doing the same.
- Visit China.
- Visit Ireland..specifically Donegal, where my kin are from. Leave roses in grandpa’s memory.
- announce to the world that I love SM..(A la diamond ring commercial.)
- Tease Sm with little tokens of love that he finds randomly. Make it our private joke.
- Decorate my house with whimsy, love and complete devotion until it is the perfect nest of serenity.
- Amass my own little art collection.
- Have a picnic, a real picnic with a checkered blanket, fried chicken with the fixin’s and chocolate cake. (My perfect meal)
- Walk along the ocean with my feet in the sand next to Sm.
- Read an entire collection of encyclopedias.
- Make every single recipe from cover to cover in a recipe book..take photographs for proof.
- Take a photo of SM in sexy pose just for me.
- Sleep in an expensive hotel and order room-service in bed.
- Have an elaborate Christmas party complete with guests to my home.
- Have a sports party. Complete with food and folks.
- Wear a red dress..dance to “Lady in Red”
- Wear a thong and then burn it.
- See the Statue of Liberty.
- Visit San Fran. Take lots of photos.
- Set up a kissing booth for giggles.
- Write a book. Don’t publish it.
- Collect all the romance books I love in hardcover for once.
- Make Love to my SM 3 times in a row.
- Watch Isabelle find her niche in the world.
- Watch Isabelle fall in love with a really good man.
- Watch Isabelle walk down the aisle with her own SM.
- Hold Isabelle’s hand as she gives birth to her 1st child.
- Do all that I have mentioned with Isabelle for all my future children.
- Grow flowers in a garden.
- Eat veggies from my own garden.
- Own a pool.
- Buy a Marital aid and not blush.
- Get a tattoo. (Just one)
- Get a manicure and a pedicure.
- Dye my hair red.
- Take a painting class.
- Take a ceramics class.
- Torture Sm with gifts from 2 previous classes.
- Hang walls with photos I took myself
- Find a Song that makes me thing of SM make it my secret song.
- Buy candles…lots of candles.
- Spend $500 at one time. Something I have never done.
- Weigh my perfect healthy weight.
- Read 1000 books.
- Own 1000 music cd’s
- Learn to speak Spanish
- Learn to speak sign language
- raise $10,000 for charity all by myself.
- Give blood every month for 5 years.
- Donate bone marrow.
- Adopt a child.
- Go to a hockey game and sit front and center.
- Visit museums in New York.
- Go to an Artists showing.
- See a Broadway play.
- Visit Canada. Go to the places tourists don’t go.
- Collect art glass.
- Hang art in my bedroom.
- Sleep naked..often.
- Learn to drive a freaking car and get my License.
- Have an all-night movie marathon party.
- Jump into a pool fully clothed.
- Get contacts or laser surgery.
- Love my body.
- Own at least 10 sexy nightgowns.
- Own every colored sock in the universe.
- Do work for Fair Trade.
- Attempt every sexual position ever dreamed of…invent some of my own.
- Tell my SM that I love him every single day.
- Have phone sex with SM. At least once.
- Learn all about wine even though I don’t drink.
- Go to the Oscars ..even if only as part of the crowd.
- Visit Australia…learn the lingo.
- Go camping…and hiking.
- See the Great Wall of China.





“81. Visit Canada. Go to the places tourists don’t go.”
When you get here let me know, Bekki!
You live in Canada I take it? I would be sure to do that. I love Canada. I grew up in Conneaut, Ohio so I know Canadians quite well. Many Canadians would come over to Ohio to buy clothing. It’s cheaper somehow. I often think that the land lines were drawn incorrectly since all the Ohioans I know are as cheerful and fun-loving as Canadians. We are a rare breed we Ohioans. While working at Disney I could always tell the ones from my homestate, not because of the accent or anything like that, but because of the overabundance of talktive cheerfulness. (big grin) and before you ask Yes, I am describing myself, somewhat. (cheeky grin)
OMG I noticed someone who read this post was searching for this: 100 sexual things to do before i die. I thought my list was nutty. OMG I can’t even think of that many positions much less the actual sex part that would add up to 100 things. I must be getting old.
Yep I’m Canadian, Bekki. Born in Alberta, spent some time in Ontario, lived the last 30 years or so in Quebec. In the Montreal area, specifically.
Are you still in Ohio?
No, I am living in Florida now. It’s not at all like home. I grew up in a small town called Kingsville. We had a gorgeous covered bridge. I miss it. I miss scaring the pheasants out of hiding and laughing when people who were not from there jumped. I was a bit of a rascal.
I see the statue of liberty every day from a school window.
Anyways, I was curious as to whether or not you actually married this soul mate.
I am going to England on Feb 14th to meet him actually.